November 26, 2009
How Do You Know?
November 25, 2009
A Protruding Labia Minora
Question:
I know you’re not a doctor, but I don’t have anyone else to ask. Is it really normal for a girl to have labia minora that protrude from their outer lips? What if it protrudes an inch?
Phyllis replied:
I think I’m going to deal with this in a future Alice book because I get asked this question a lot. Whether the labia minora (the inner lips at the opening of your vagina) protrudes from the outer lips (the labia majora) or doesn’t protrude at all is just one of the many variations of a girl’s sexual parts, and it doesn’t make one bit of difference. There is nothing abnormal whether you can’t see the inner lips at all or the lips are very prominent. I have heard of both variations being considered sexy by different men. Remember girls, it’s the WHOLE girl that appeals to a guy, not just some small part.
November 25, 2009
Will You Miss Her?
November 25, 2009
Books in Order
Question:
I am a big enormous fan of Alice books!!I love them and the ones I have read are: Starting with Alice, Lovingly Alice,Alice in the Know,The Grooming of Alice,Alice on the Outside,Patiently Alice,the Agony of Alice,Including Alice,Alice the Brave,Alice in Rapture Sort Of,Alice Alone.I am about to read Achingly Alice aNd Simply Alice.Also Alice on Her Way.I loooove to read and my favorite series are Nancy Drew mysteries and your series the Alice series by Phyllis Reynolds Naylor.Can I have a complete list of the Alice series in order please?My library doesn’t have all of them and I’d like to know the names so I can find them.Thanks.And please reply as soon as you can.
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Phyllis replied:
Go to www.alicemckinley.com and click on “Books in Order” at the top of the page.
November 25, 2009
I Get So Jealous
| Question:
hi well im from texas an i was just wondering something…ok i went out with this guy for the first time last year and i broke up with my then boyfriend of one year for this guy and he broke up with me then we went out again last january an he broke up with me once again in march..he is now going out with this other girl and i get so jealous because i still like him… idk what to do…should i try to get over him..? sometimes i feel he still likes me he even messages me still…what do you think i should do..? |
Phyllis replied:
I don’t know what you should do, but I know that I wouldn’t want to waste any more time on a guy who broke up with me twice. But chances are, if he’s an on-again, off-again kind of guy, he’ll break up with this girl too and perhaps come back to you, and you can go through the cycle all over again.
November 25, 2009
Cannot Wait!
Question:
i no ive complained be4 about not being allowed to do somthing and its probobly getting annoying but plz write back this is important.(to me anyway) ok youve probobly heard of the twilight series by stephanie meyer. the first and second book twilight and new moon were turned into movies and they’re making the other two into movies as well. new moon just came out in theaters. and i really want to read the series and watch the movies really badly. except the movies are rated pg13 and my parents wont let me read or see the movie until im thirteen years old. i really wish i was thirteen because lots of kids in my class have either read the series, seen the movies or read and seen it and they say its really good.i no you’ll probobly say i should enjoy being younger while i can but i cannot wait two whole years to read that book! what should i do mrs.naylor plz help.
Phyllis replied:
Yes you can. I realize you have written to me at least three times asking me to intervene somehow and persuade your mom to let you do something for which she feels you’re too young. One way to show your mom you are growing up and are more mature is to learn to sit down and calmly discuss your problems with her instead of asking someone else to help. I don’t mind helping people when I can, but I don’t live in your house, I don’t know the rules, and the fact is that as long as you are under her roof, she makes the rules.
November 22, 2009
What Should I Do?
Question:
Phyllis replied:
Listen to your mom. I don’t know anything about this
company, but if they provide a personal trainer and get
you into commercials and movies, then a person needs
a LOT of talent to get in and/or there is a big fee for
entering the program. If you are really, really good at
singing and acting, then try out for plays and musicals
at your school and work your way up. You mom is right;
being a professional singer and actress is work.
November 21, 2009
What’s Wrong With Me?
November 20, 2009
The Guy Totally Ignores Her
Question:
I love your books but I have a problem. Lately the “popular” kids have been wanting to hangout I have always been in the middle not a nerd or a popular. I always wanna bring my bff with me they like her to but she doesn’t wanna she says she feels like she always feels like she has 2 impress them and feels intimidated by them. I really wanna hangout with them though the guy she likes knows she likes him and totally ignores her and acts weird in front of her on purpose. And today he asks me for my number I panicked so I gave it to him. I know she will be mad even though it doesn’t really mean anything! PLEASE HELP!
Phyllis replied:
There is no rule that says a girl can claim a guy for her own if they aren’t even going out. If you could never go out with any guy that any other girl had a crush on, most of the boys at school would be off-limits. Obviously, if a guy and girl are starting to like each other and flirting a lot, you don’t want to try to lure him away or even encourage him. Maybe you and your friend need to have a talk about how she would feel if a guy you liked preferred her. Admit it’s a sticky situation. But please don’t worry so much about giving the boy your phone number. You ARE allowed to have friends and phone conversations, remember. If it develops into more than that, then you and your friend need to talk.