I know what masturbation is, but how do you do it?
It’s so very personal that it’s probably different for every person. It would be like trying to describe how you like a back rub or exactly how chocolate tastes in your mouth. A guy might stroke his penis and a girl stroke her clitoris, and it’s the rhythm and pressure–different for every person–that excites them. Usually guys are thinking of girls and of making love to them, and the girls are thinking of guys. This is natural, normal, and because it’s all imaginary, some of these fantasies can be pretty wild. And if you don’t want to masturbate, that’s okay too.